Letter To That My Future Boyfriend

Relationships are aimed to increase the “happiness quotient” in our lives. The first relationship is special to each and every one – the expectations, aspirations, dreams, fantasies, faults, more misunderstandings, etc. However, it tells us who we are and what we practically expect from a relationship. Moreover a break up makes us stronger.

I have seen a lot many of my friends, being more mature after ending up their first relationship. But girls always take longer time to overcome the breakup blues. So I have decided to dedicate this post to the lovely ladies all over the world because I believe that every girl is special and she deserves the man who is the best for her and brings out the best in her. Before thinking of any future relationship, a girl must learn to love herself and the present moment because the key to finding true love is self love.

In a letter to that my future boyfriend I would like to include all the things that make a relationship worthy of lasting till eternity. Here it goes:


My Dear Future Boyfriend

I have seen my share of immature first loves
and the painful heartbreaks that follow. When
I look back now, I feel that I have grown up. I
know my priorities in life. I know myself and I
am deeply, madly, and passionately in love
with myself.
At the moment I don’t want a boyfriend. I
don’t want to flaunt among my friends because
I already have an awesome life.
But one day in my future I will need someone.
Someone who can complete and compliment
me. Someone who trusts me. Someone who
understands me. Someone who is as strong as
the wind to fight for me. Someone who is as
soft as the breeze to calm me. Someone who is
just there beside me, with unspoken words,
with the unsaid promise to have the best talks in
silence. Someone who share my grievances.

Will you be the one who stays?

I want someone who can forgive me for every
fight. Someone who needs me in his life.
Someone who can make me run on that road
which never ends, which is build out of trust
and patience, which has only love and longing
to be the best for the best.
I want someone who is daring enough to steal
the princess from her own self. Someone who
looks beyond the figure and physical
appearances and sees my true inner core.
Someone who looks me in the eyes and
connects with my soul.
Someone who allows me to be stupid and
childish. Someone who strengthens me daily
before I go to work. Someone who is my friend
to support and understand me with my ways.
Someone with whom I am free to be my own
self.

Together we will define love.

I want someone who can define love in my life.
Love – as pure as the snow, as pious as the
divine, as strong as the mountains, as beautiful
as the stars twinkling above.
I know if he exists, I will meet him at the
perfect time and in the perfect way. And I will
change into my true self through him and for
him. I will be changed. But what I love most is
the irony that he won’t care if I change or stay
the same, because he will love me no matter
what.
I am happy with my life and with each passing
day. I am learning new ways to love myself. I
am enjoying being single because it allows
me to dream of you while pursuing my own
dreams.
I wish the same accelerates with your entry
into my life.

In Love

Your Future Girlfriend